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Finding Your Ideal Partner: Understanding Compatibility
by
Phyllis Light, PhD. ©2001
The will body refers to how you use your will as you move through life.
It refers to the driving force, the energy you put into achieving your goals
and fulfilling your desires. A high compatibility between the will bodies of
you and another person indicates that you enjoy doing things together because
you both use your will energy in similar ways. Sometimes, the deep
subconscious belief that your life has no meaning or purpose can diminish
your own will energy. Then, when you find yourself in a relationship with
another person, it is difficult to be compatible with them on this level,
since your own will energy is not at the level where it belongs. If you have
a deep fear or belief that you'll always be alone, then, even when you find a
relationship partner, your beliefs will make it difficult for your will body
to be compatible with your partner's.
A high compatibility between your spiritual bodies is essential for a
long-lasting, conscious relationship. When you operate on a similar
spiritual frequency with a partner, you have a deep understanding or rapport
between you as to how you both perceive and react to life. While the other
person may not necessarily have the exact same religious beliefs or
preferences, your essential natures still enjoy that deep sense of connection
and rapport. The more you do your "inner housecleaning" and release any
subconscious blockages within your own Being, the more sensitive you will
become to the energy of the spiritual body.
All negative programming will lower you compatibilities with another
person. The trick however, is to keep clearing, healing, and transforming
your old negative programming, rather than bagging the relationship. People
are prone to leave relationships (57% of marriages end in divorce, reported
on "Oprah" recently), when in truth, what they NEED to leave behind is the
negative programming causing the disharmony.
Understanding the compatibilities will help you determine the potential
success of any relationship, but more importantly, it will give you
significant feedback on which areas of yourself you may need to work on to
improve your ability to connect with another person. The clearer and freer
you are of your old subconscious "baggage"-- your negative programming from
the past--the more fulfilling all of your relationship experiences will be,
and the higher your compatibilities will be with your Prince (or Princess)
Charming.
Phyllis Light, Ph.D. is the author of Prince Charming Lives!* Finding the
Love of Your Life (*Princess Charming Does, Too) and her upcoming book, Love
Now, Here's How/ 26 Roadblocks to Healthy Relationships & How to Clear Them.
She is also an expert in helping people to identify and transform deep
subconscious programming that blocks love and success in life. People call
Phyllis from all over the world to take advantage of her "Telepathic Healing"
sessions.
For more information, visit her website: www.lighthealing.com or write
to phyllis@lighthealing.com, or call her office in Austin, Texas at
(512) 301-2999.
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